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Sometimes

I think

You love me

Because we are so much alike

But that’s why,

I think,

You hate me

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scienceing:

mybluedecember:

princess-munchkin:

How the fuck does Bill Nye expect this to happen? What do you want to do, force women to enroll in science courses, regardless of whether or not they want to do it? Just for the sake of having “enough” women? Why the fuck do these fractions matter so much? It’s not like people are holding guns to our head and threatening to kill us if we become interested in science.
Maybe, just maybe, a lot of us DON’T FUCKING WANT to be scientists. Is that a crime?

Hi there, princess-munchkin. Female engineering student here. 
Bill Nye is not saying that you HAVE to be a scientist, and you are right that no one is holding a gun to my head because I am interested in science, but let me tell you some of the struggles of being a woman in the STEM fields. 
1) Because I am a woman, I am not expected these fields. I first fully realized this when I was in high school, on my robotics team. See, although my robotics team was about 50% female, most of the women were part of the “business administration” side of things: finance, marketting, PR, membership, etc. Was this a problem? Absolutely not. But I was there to be an engineer, and specifically, to be the robot programmer. This was met with a lot of hesitation at first from some of the other students (all of whom happened to be male. This is not necessarily a bad thing.) You see, all of the robot programmers before me were guys. Computer programming is just a thing that guys do, or so they thought. Even after I had proved myself to the mentors on the team, many of the students still underestimated my abilities. There were rumors going around that I wouldn’t have been able to program the robot at all if the lead software mentor wasn’t there to help me. This was just flat-out false, but it wasn’t until I won an award for the team that the other students actually saw my merit. 
2) There is not a lot of encouragement for women to go into these fields. I first noticed this when I was in elementary school. I was always interested in math, science, you name it, but many of my teachers and family members pushed that to the side for a long time. When I asked for legos for christmas, I would get ballet slippers. In fact, for a long time, I was training to be a professional dancer. I loved to dance. I loved math more, but no one seemed to notice that about me. It wasn’t until I had a long conversation with one particular teacher in high school that I decided to look into engineering. I had never even considered it as an option before, because no one decided to encourage me to pursue my interest in science. If it hadn’t been for that teacher, I would probably not be at the school I am at right now. 
3) For a long time, Engineering/Science/Math WAS a “boys only” club. Let me tell you when some of the top technical schools and societies started letting women in:
RPI, The oldest tech school in the country, founded in 1824. Started admitting women in 1942 to “replace men called to war.” Campus housing for women wasn’t constructed until 1966. 
Tau Beta Pi, the Engineering Honors Society - Founded in 1885. Started admitting women in 1968.
Caltech - Currently rated #3 in undergraduate engineering. Founded in 1891. Started admitting women in 1970. 
Georgia Tech - Currently rated #5 in undergraduate engineering. Founded in 1885. Started admitting women in 1952. 
Do you see the implications of this? Engineering has been a part of our society since around the late 1800s (in the case of RPI, since the 1820s), but women weren’t even allowed in for the most part until the 1950s, regardless of their merit. 
4) Because of the fact that it was a “boys only” club for such a long time, there are not a lot of women engineers and scientists to look up to. When you’re reading your physics, chemistry, and math text books, the majority of those theories were came up with by men. It is true that much of our history was written by White Men, but this does not mean that the fact that there are few women scientists to look up does not matter. 
So, as you can hopefully see, princess-munckin, or anyone else that shares the opinions of princess-munchkin, Bill Nye was not arguing that women that are not interested in STEM should go into those fields anyway. But he IS arguing against all of the systematic barriers set up against women who ARE interested in engineering and science. There are several women out there who are just as good as the boys at math and science, but will never pursue their interests because it just doesn’t seem like an option. That was me for a long time. I am super grateful for the fact that I fought against that, and that I ended up where I am. 
if you don’t like science, fine. Don’t be a scientist. But if one day you have a daughter and she shows interest in being a scientist, PLEASE encourage her. Because Bill Nye is right, there needs to be more women scientists in the world. 

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Okay. Statistics are not an individual measurement. Statistics apply to populations, not individuals, and the larger the population the more closely it applies.
The population of the world is so large (and the number of scientists is also so large) that individual variation shouldn’t have a significant effect on the overall statistics. There’s no major effect of femininity that would cause such a drastic difference in the proportion of female humans and the proportion of female scientists, so without external forces one could reasonably expect the proportions to be about the same. The fact that they’re not close together means that there are forces preventing it. Things like the collective systematic pressure that mybluedecember mentioned, among others.
He’s not saying that we need to force people to become scientists. He’s saying we should stop forcing people not to. Stop telling them from birth that it’s not for them. Stop making it harder for them at every step of the way. If being female doesn’t have a major effect on your ability to be a scientist (and it doesn’t) and half the humans are female (and they are, approximately), then in any reasonably large population (and seven billion is really very large), having a scientist split other than approximately one-half means someone’s hindering science by forcibly adjusting the proportions when it’s unnecessary.
And Bill Nye has no time for that sort of bullshit.

scienceing:

mybluedecember:

princess-munchkin:

How the fuck does Bill Nye expect this to happen? What do you want to do, force women to enroll in science courses, regardless of whether or not they want to do it? Just for the sake of having “enough” women? Why the fuck do these fractions matter so much? It’s not like people are holding guns to our head and threatening to kill us if we become interested in science.

Maybe, just maybe, a lot of us DON’T FUCKING WANT to be scientists. Is that a crime?

Hi there, princess-munchkin. Female engineering student here. 

Bill Nye is not saying that you HAVE to be a scientist, and you are right that no one is holding a gun to my head because I am interested in science, but let me tell you some of the struggles of being a woman in the STEM fields. 

1) Because I am a woman, I am not expected these fields. I first fully realized this when I was in high school, on my robotics team. See, although my robotics team was about 50% female, most of the women were part of the “business administration” side of things: finance, marketting, PR, membership, etc. Was this a problem? Absolutely not. But I was there to be an engineer, and specifically, to be the robot programmer. This was met with a lot of hesitation at first from some of the other students (all of whom happened to be male. This is not necessarily a bad thing.) You see, all of the robot programmers before me were guys. Computer programming is just a thing that guys do, or so they thought. Even after I had proved myself to the mentors on the team, many of the students still underestimated my abilities. There were rumors going around that I wouldn’t have been able to program the robot at all if the lead software mentor wasn’t there to help me. This was just flat-out false, but it wasn’t until I won an award for the team that the other students actually saw my merit. 

2) There is not a lot of encouragement for women to go into these fields. I first noticed this when I was in elementary school. I was always interested in math, science, you name it, but many of my teachers and family members pushed that to the side for a long time. When I asked for legos for christmas, I would get ballet slippers. In fact, for a long time, I was training to be a professional dancer. I loved to dance. I loved math more, but no one seemed to notice that about me. It wasn’t until I had a long conversation with one particular teacher in high school that I decided to look into engineering. I had never even considered it as an option before, because no one decided to encourage me to pursue my interest in science. If it hadn’t been for that teacher, I would probably not be at the school I am at right now. 

3) For a long time, Engineering/Science/Math WAS a “boys only” club. Let me tell you when some of the top technical schools and societies started letting women in:

  • RPI, The oldest tech school in the country, founded in 1824. Started admitting women in 1942 to “replace men called to war.” Campus housing for women wasn’t constructed until 1966. 
  • Tau Beta Pi, the Engineering Honors Society - Founded in 1885. Started admitting women in 1968.
  • Caltech - Currently rated #3 in undergraduate engineering. Founded in 1891. Started admitting women in 1970. 
  • Georgia Tech - Currently rated #5 in undergraduate engineering. Founded in 1885. Started admitting women in 1952. 

Do you see the implications of this? Engineering has been a part of our society since around the late 1800s (in the case of RPI, since the 1820s), but women weren’t even allowed in for the most part until the 1950s, regardless of their merit. 

4) Because of the fact that it was a “boys only” club for such a long time, there are not a lot of women engineers and scientists to look up to. When you’re reading your physics, chemistry, and math text books, the majority of those theories were came up with by men. It is true that much of our history was written by White Men, but this does not mean that the fact that there are few women scientists to look up does not matter. 

So, as you can hopefully see, princess-munckin, or anyone else that shares the opinions of princess-munchkin, Bill Nye was not arguing that women that are not interested in STEM should go into those fields anyway. But he IS arguing against all of the systematic barriers set up against women who ARE interested in engineering and science. There are several women out there who are just as good as the boys at math and science, but will never pursue their interests because it just doesn’t seem like an option. That was me for a long time. I am super grateful for the fact that I fought against that, and that I ended up where I am. 

if you don’t like science, fine. Don’t be a scientist. But if one day you have a daughter and she shows interest in being a scientist, PLEASE encourage her. Because Bill Nye is right, there needs to be more women scientists in the world. 

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Okay. Statistics are not an individual measurement. Statistics apply to populations, not individuals, and the larger the population the more closely it applies.

The population of the world is so large (and the number of scientists is also so large) that individual variation shouldn’t have a significant effect on the overall statistics. There’s no major effect of femininity that would cause such a drastic difference in the proportion of female humans and the proportion of female scientists, so without external forces one could reasonably expect the proportions to be about the same. The fact that they’re not close together means that there are forces preventing it. Things like the collective systematic pressure that mybluedecember mentioned, among others.

He’s not saying that we need to force people to become scientists. He’s saying we should stop forcing people not to. Stop telling them from birth that it’s not for them. Stop making it harder for them at every step of the way. If being female doesn’t have a major effect on your ability to be a scientist (and it doesn’t) and half the humans are female (and they are, approximately), then in any reasonably large population (and seven billion is really very large), having a scientist split other than approximately one-half means someone’s hindering science by forcibly adjusting the proportions when it’s unnecessary.

And Bill Nye has no time for that sort of bullshit.

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koulin:

pewpuupalace:

zeonhime:

the worst feeling about trying to draw is being a mediocre artist. You realize you’re not terrible and family and friends who can’t draw at all tell you all the time how amazing you are, but you, as the artist, have seen what amazing really is and you realize that it isn’t you.

500% me

oh my fuck god

this post

just

this post.

Keep in mind that even by being ‘mediocre’ at something, you’re likely better than the majority of the world. When I tell people I play the violin and they ask me if I’m any good, I say I’m better than most people and worse than most violinists. But that’s still better than most people! I am horrible at drawing. I suspect the vast majority of the people who’ve reblogged this are better than I am. And I’m far from the only one who’s horrible and I’m almost certainly not the worst.

Just because there’s someone better doesn’t mean you’re not good. After all, only one in about seven billion can be the absolute best in the world at something. If you can do something that most people can’t, that’s great and you’re amazing.

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heroful:

Look, I’m in the newspaper.

Look, my pretty bird’s in the newspaper.

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Perhaps one of the saddest things is when someone has been so thoroughly crushed that nothing can possibly convince them of their own worth and that absolutely anything is enough to convince them of their own worthlessness. When the evidence doesn’t matter and they can no longer even get angry about being mistreated.

When a person goes “look at this great thing I did!” and the response is “It’s not good enough and you’re worthless”, if that’s so commonplace that the person responds “Yeah, you’re right” and believes it…

that’s one of the saddest things.

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morristibbs:

bigtuna108:

morristibbs:

cutting toxic people out of your life is like flossing it hurts like a bitch and sometimes you cry and bleed but once its overwith everything is minty fresh and clean feeling and you can have a good day

if you flossed more it wouldn’t bleed

who let a dentist on tumblr

no the point is that if you didn’t leave the toxic person unattended so long it wouldn’t hurt as much

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“Yes” doesn’t always mean “yes” when you haven’t created a situation in which your partner feels comfortable saying “no.”

pittsies:

ladysourpuss:

veeisagenderneutralname:

I feel like this should be obvious. But every time I see someone say “yes means yes; no means no” I cringe a little. Consent isn’t always that simple.

exactly

Thank you. Because if you asked 14 times, got 13 “no”s and one “yes”, you didn’t obtain consent. I hate when people try to simplify consent like that. 

“Yes means yes” is a short and memorable catchphase for affirmative consent, but like most catchphrases it is not the whole philosophy.

Let’s talk about affirmative consent!

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homeschool-winner:

sheeples:

crowsephone:

tumblino:

dragondicks:

stamps-no:

Not a stamp but
This man feels so strongly about lesbians’ private sexual lives and how they should live their livesThat he wrote this entire thing.
(  ゚,_ゝ゚)

jesus christ I think I went cross-eyed reading this

??????????


you’ve got to be fucking squiddling me. 
this dude sounds so much like a virgin with rage that he’s now lashing out lesbians for not fucking dudes.
btw, the name of that eminem song that he quoted is called “Fuckin Crazy”, which is an apt description of this entire mess.

Except you know maybe in a sexual relationship it’s not all about te genitalia, but what’s attached to it? Yeah.

ok this is rly awful but uh just
“ding ding ding, do your thing”

tl;dr why are you using a dildo instead of my dick you obviously secretly want it

homeschool-winner:

sheeples:

crowsephone:

tumblino:

dragondicks:

stamps-no:

Not a stamp but

This man feels so strongly about lesbians’ private sexual lives and how they should live their lives
That he wrote this entire thing.

(  ゚,_ゝ゚)

jesus christ I think I went cross-eyed reading this

??????????

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you’ve got to be fucking squiddling me. 

this dude sounds so much like a virgin with rage that he’s now lashing out lesbians for not fucking dudes.

btw, the name of that eminem song that he quoted is called “Fuckin Crazy”, which is an apt description of this entire mess.

Except you know maybe in a sexual relationship it’s not all about te genitalia, but what’s attached to it? Yeah.

ok this is rly awful but uh just

“ding ding ding, do your thing”

tl;dr why are you using a dildo instead of my dick you obviously secretly want it

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homeschool-winner:

doridachi:

causticgambler:

kitsubasa:

A man gets stabbed in the chest with a bit of wood that makes him forget all his skills. Accompanied by his mum, he travels Europe looking for a cure for chest-wood, while beating up old men and narrowly dodging incest.

you’re a tiny metaphysical being who has to shoot down cyber-spaceships with snare drums

a baby fights gross half-babies and stuff in a basement because their mom is a psychopath

an elf in a green hat falls down a hole and dreams of a falling moon and a freak in a mask and another freak who holds a bunch of masks but doesnt wear them and so he tries over and over again to keep the moon from falling and then when he does it turns out theres children and a big green grassy plain inside of the moon so he plays some games with them and then everyone lives happily ever after

In an abandoned building, you run an obstacle course full of enemies trying to kill you. You don’t get a weapon. Instead, someone is constantly telling you how you’re dumb and fat and slow and adopted.
Then you do it again, but in a larger course with two people fighting over which one gets to be your friend, but you still don’t get a weapon and they’re both calling you dumb and fat and slow and adopted.

homeschool-winner:

doridachi:

causticgambler:

kitsubasa:

A man gets stabbed in the chest with a bit of wood that makes him forget all his skills. Accompanied by his mum, he travels Europe looking for a cure for chest-wood, while beating up old men and narrowly dodging incest.

you’re a tiny metaphysical being who has to shoot down cyber-spaceships with snare drums

a baby fights gross half-babies and stuff in a basement because their mom is a psychopath

an elf in a green hat falls down a hole and dreams of a falling moon and a freak in a mask and another freak who holds a bunch of masks but doesnt wear them and so he tries over and over again to keep the moon from falling and then when he does it turns out theres children and a big green grassy plain inside of the moon so he plays some games with them and then everyone lives happily ever after

In an abandoned building, you run an obstacle course full of enemies trying to kill you. You don’t get a weapon. Instead, someone is constantly telling you how you’re dumb and fat and slow and adopted.

Then you do it again, but in a larger course with two people fighting over which one gets to be your friend, but you still don’t get a weapon and they’re both calling you dumb and fat and slow and adopted.

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tenthousandghosts:

now hiring someone to dramatically throw themselves on top of my coffin as it’s being lowered into my grave at my funeral.

yes how much and is the contract invalidated if I murder you so I get paid faster

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aristo-kitty:

fuckyesquidditch:

theybuiltastauteofus:

I think I understand Quidditch more than I understand football.

I know I understand quidditch more than I understand football.

See, I’m not even sure which football you’re talking about.

Don’t have that problem with quidditch.

American Quidditch is where they run around on a field hitting each other with brooms. All scoring actions receive a prime number of points and the team with the most points at the end wins except if a team gets 0 points they have the chance to set their brooms on fire and if they tag every other member of the opposing team with their fiery sticks they win anyway. It’s a high-stakes ploy.

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roxys-ass:

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Hey guys. Apologies for the very long post, but I feel as if this needs to be said.

I’m sure everyone remembers that really awesome, amazingly well made Jake English cosplay that was circulating around for a while? Their url is whatevachild.

These are some of the answered asks on their page. I noticed that some people were receiving really rude answers, and I felt as if I should say something. This cosplayer believes that if you aren’t perfect, then you’re a shitty cosplayer.

The very last two pictures are the responses I received to my asks to them. I honestly respected them as a cosplayer, and strived to make my cosplays as well as them one day. Now, I know I’m no professional, and I’m not some type of cosplay god, but I put a LOT of work into my cosplays. I spend a lot of money and time on them….but APPARENTLY, I will never be able to be as good as this person. I simply tried to be polite and let them know that maybe they should be a little less rude towards maybe not-so-amazing cosplayers, and this was the answer I got.

My point is, you can be an amazing cosplayer, and you can have your opinions, but there’s no need to make other people feel like shit because of a damn hobby. Feel free to take cosplay as seriously as you wish, but once you become a prick towards other people because their cosplay doesn’t live up to your own expectations, you become a pretty awful cosplayer.

I think this is the kind of thing that needs to stop in the cosplay community. I mean honestly there is no need for this ‘elitism’ in a community ran by a bunch of people obsessed with fictional characters cartoons, video games and comics. No matter how hard anyone tries you can never achieve 100% super canon because that would require to, you know, be the character from the series. We as a community need to stop judging people on their weight, height, gender, financial status, ability to wear the cosplay and so on and so forth. Being rude or elitist doesn’t help anyone, it doesn’t even help your popularity. And really your only robbing yourself of a good time because whats the fun in cosplaying if no one wants to be around you because you’re the epitome of a horses ass?

I respect putting a lot of effort into things and I don’t like all the comments I’ve seen about how it’s “just a hobby”. People can put all the work they want to into something even if it doesn’t make money and that’s fine. That doesn’t excuse being a dick about it to people who put in less work, though.

But what confuses me the most is that there isn’t really much social justice in any of those asks when there really should be. You know who else is not canonically 5’5” with a proportionate 5’5” head? Jake English. If it’s so shameful to not put much effort into painting your skin grey, why isn’t it shameful to completely skip out on painting your skin white? And if you argue that that’s an msp representation and thus isn’t restricting in that way: If The Batter isn’t sufficiently ‘feminine looking’, then why would someone who routinely fights robots and lusus and runs around on all these extremely physical adventures be? If you’re so concerned about canon, maybe get yourself some scars and a ton of calluses. If your skin isn’t gonna be painted white, it should at least have an impressive level of tanning (or be obviously skin that doesn’t tan). This isn’t a “perfect, fine ass, canon as all hell” jake cosplay, it’s an impressive and enjoyable take on Jake that fudges a few things and that’s fine. But if you get so specific about The Batter and then call your Jake completely canonical, you sure are assuming a lot of things about Jake that aren’t specified anywhere.

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togamischoicemoney:

liquid-meth-addict:

I wonder how many will actually reblog…

What about asexual?

Did you seriously just set up a bunch of categories and give ‘straight’ its own and lump ‘bisexual’, ‘transgender’, and ‘intersex’ in the same one?
Do you even know what these words mean? They’re not even slightly related except as classes of people who get marginalized and all grouped together as “weird”. Like this.
What the fuck are you trying to imply here?
This is what it looks like to me:
sexual orientation
also sexual orientations but as an afterthought because they’re nonstandard
skin color (ignoring the majority of humans)
amount of body fat (again ignoring the majority of humans)
a double-afterthought sexual orientation, a gender identity, and a physical characteristic (grasping at things that seem really weird in order to sound sufficiently inclusive)
I appreciate the sentiment, but calm down with the normative assumptions there.

togamischoicemoney:

liquid-meth-addict:

I wonder how many will actually reblog…

What about asexual?

Did you seriously just set up a bunch of categories and give ‘straight’ its own and lump ‘bisexual’, ‘transgender’, and ‘intersex’ in the same one?

Do you even know what these words mean? They’re not even slightly related except as classes of people who get marginalized and all grouped together as “weird”. Like this.

What the fuck are you trying to imply here?

This is what it looks like to me:

  • sexual orientation
  • also sexual orientations but as an afterthought because they’re nonstandard
  • skin color (ignoring the majority of humans)
  • amount of body fat (again ignoring the majority of humans)
  • a double-afterthought sexual orientation, a gender identity, and a physical characteristic (grasping at things that seem really weird in order to sound sufficiently inclusive)

I appreciate the sentiment, but calm down with the normative assumptions there.

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izziesavage:

hungoverjake:

do not point out anyone’s scars or cuts
do not point out anyone’s scars or cuts
do not point out anyone’s scars or cuts
do not point out anyone’s scars or cuts

  • DO NOT FUCKING POINT OUT ANYONE’S FUCKING SCARS OR CUTS.

DO NOT ASK WHERE THEY GOT THEM FROM, EITHER

because the silent stares and sidelong glances are so much better

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